Melissa Paakh

Melissa Paakh

Trauma · Relationships · Emotional Healing

Helping individuals, couples, and families navigate trauma, relationship wounds, addiction, anxiety, and identity healing through an insight-oriented and trauma-informed approach.

Currently practicing under licensed clinical supervision in California.

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About

About Melissa

Melissa Paakh is a psychotherapist trainee pursuing advanced clinical training in Marriage and Family Therapy and trauma-focused treatment. Her work integrates relational, attachment-based, trauma-informed, and psychodynamic perspectives to help clients better understand patterns, heal emotional wounds, and build healthier relationships.

Melissa works with adults, couples, and families experiencing:

  • Narcissistic abuse recovery
  • Relationship trauma
  • Borderline personality dynamics
  • Divorce and separation
  • Family systems impacted by addiction
  • Anxiety and depression
  • Trauma and complex PTSD
  • Codependency and attachment wounds
  • Identity rebuilding after emotionally abusive relationships

Melissa's therapeutic style is warm, direct, compassionate, and insight-oriented, creating a space where clients can feel emotionally safe while doing deep transformational work.

Currently practicing under the supervision of: Dr. Markus Rogan

Areas of Focus

Narcissistic Abuse & Emotional Manipulation

Support for individuals recovering from gaslighting, emotional abuse, coercive relationships, and toxic relational dynamics.

Borderline Personality Dynamics

Helping clients navigate emotional intensity, attachment wounds, relational instability, and identity-related struggles with compassion and structure.

Divorce & Relationship Trauma

Therapy for heartbreak, betrayal trauma, separation, unhealthy relationship cycles, and rebuilding self-worth after painful relationships.

Addiction & Family Systems

Working with individuals and families impacted by substance abuse, codependency, enabling patterns, and intergenerational trauma.

Anxiety, Depression & Trauma

Support for nervous system regulation, emotional overwhelm, self-esteem, chronic stress, and unresolved trauma.

Approach

My Approach

I believe symptoms often develop in response to unresolved pain, attachment injuries, trauma, and relational experiences — not personal weakness.

Therapy is a collaborative process designed to help clients:

  • Understand emotional patterns
  • Improve relationships
  • Develop healthier boundaries
  • Increase self-awareness
  • Heal trauma responses
  • Rebuild trust in themselves

My work is trauma-informed, relational, compassionate, and grounded in evidence-based clinical principles.

Contact

Book a consultation.

Send a note with a little about what's bringing you to therapy. I'll reply within two business days.

Or email directly: melissapaakh@gmail.com