Melissa Paakh

Resources

Writing on relationships, attachment, and change

A growing collection of essays and reflections drawn from clinical practice and doctoral research - on the patterns that shape our closest relationships, and the work of changing them.

Article

Signs You're in a Narcissistic Relationship

When Love Starts Feeling Like You Have to Earn It

A clinical guide to recognizing the quiet patterns that erode self-trust - and why healing begins not with spotting another narcissist, but with rebuilding the relationship you've lost with yourself.